“What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.” ~Don Miguel Ruiz For most of my life, I didn’t fully understand what projection was.
I just knew I kept becoming the problem. I was “too much.” Too intense. Too emotional. Thought too deeply. Spoke too plainly.
Again and again, I was blamed, misunderstood, and cast out for holding up a mirror to things no one wanted to see. But in my forties, I began doing shadow work in and out of therapy.
At first, I thought the shadow was the broken part. The mess to fix. The thing to hide. But I slowly realized: the shadow is where the gold lives.
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