As a sex therapist, relationship expert, and neuroscientist who studies sex and the , I get tons of questions about how to deal with a sex life that no longer sizzles.
Here’s the secret: The biggest issue that stalls a sex life after the honeymoon glow of new relationship energy (NRE) wears off boils down to one basic problem: a simple difference in libido.What I mean by libido is way more complicated than a high or low sex drive.
In , I explained that sexual desire comes in different forms. We can have active desire, when we feel "horny" and have the urge to merge.
Increasing your active desire can be as simple as whipping out a vibrator and tuning into your own arousal. But there's also responsive desire that lurks below the surface and.
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