“Narcissism is voluntary blindness, an agreement not to look beneath the surface.” ~Sam Keen Have you ever found yourself wondering, “Am I the narcissist in this relationship?” If so, you’re not alone.
This question can feel heavy and unsettling, especially if you’ve spent years tangled in a toxic dynamic. The more you try to figure things out, the more confusing it becomes.
But here’s something to hold onto: The very fact that you’re asking this question is a sign that you probably aren’t narcissistic. Am I the Narcissist? Victims of often find themselves questioning their actions, replaying conversations, and overanalyzing their behavior.
Meanwhile, the real narcissist rarely, if ever, stops to consider whether they might be at fault. Why? Because self-reflection is not in their nature.