Q: “I’m going through a divorce. My child, who has ADHD, seems to be acting out more, and even lying. How should I handle this?”Divorce is difficult for kids of all ages, and their stress and frustration may manifest in behavioral changes.
Lying is a common behavior in kids with ADHD, especially younger children. Most of the time, parents are very concerned because they think, “I’m raising a sociopath.
Why is my child lying? This goes against our family’s values.”In a divorce, lying can often take on another dynamic. A child may lie about what happens in the other parent’s home because they think it’s what you want to hear.
Many feel that the divorce is their fault, and they see that you are sad when they leave you. Maybe they’re having a great time in the other house, and they feel bad that you’re alone.