The ADHD Myths That Hurt Us Most

ADHD stereotypes – about what the condition’s presentations, causes, duration, and more – are stigmatizing, harmful, and even dangerous.

Myths and misconceptions minimize the lived experiences of neurodivergent people and often prevent them from seeking and accessing the care they need.Here, ADDitude readers share the ADHD myths and misperceptions they would eradicate – false beliefs that profoundly affect them and their families.“People who don't believe ADHD is real think we medicate our children because we don't want to parent. When a child needs medication and you allow them to take it (along with tools/strategies for struggles), you are giving them a chance to actually succeed and excel in life.” – Abby, Iowa“Everyone blames the parent for the child's behavior. They have NO idea how much love we pour over our children, and still they do what they do.

We can't always control them or make them comply. It is very isolating.” – An ADDitude Reader“[The myth] that ADHD is only about developmental stage, and that kids can be controlled, is harmful. It assumes parents aren't doing the ‘right’ things to ‘control’ their children.” – Marivic, Washington“I wish people knew that giving glaring looks at myself or my child isn’t helpful.

Instead, offering a helpful distraction for the parent or child IS helpful.” – Shawna, Arkansas“I hear a lot of people say that it doesn't make sense that someone who has ADHD can concentrate on some things and not others.