Q: My neurodivergent teen doesn’t understand how he come across to other boys. (It’s not good.) I’ve tried to talk with him about this, but he just gets angry or defensive and shuts down.
How should I start this conversation in a way that won’t make him feel bad about himself?First, I want to acknowledge that you’re in a tough spot – and you’re not alone.
Watching your child struggle socially is painful. And when every attempt to talk about it ends in argument or hurt feelings, it’s natural to second-guess yourself.But please understand this: You are not making your son feel bad about himself by bringing this up.
That feeling is already there. Many kids with ADHD who struggle socially experience deep frustration and shame, even if they can’t name those emotions.
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