Whining. Pestering. Arguing. The most effective way to reduce these and other minor attention-seeking behaviors from your child is by reducing how much attention you pay to these behaviors.
Sounds simple, right? In theory, redirecting your attention is rarely easy.Use the tips below to guide you in putting this behavioral strategy into action.
Remember that redirecting your attention takes time and practice to perfect. Some caregivers also work with a professional trained in effectively utilizing this parent strategy.1.
Ignore the behavior if it is minor and reinforced through attention. This can include:2. Do not ignore or tolerate dangerous, destructive, or unsafe behavior. Intervene to stop those behaviors immediately and implement appropriate consequences.3.